How ready are you for coaching or mentoring? Coaching or mentoring can be beneficial at almost any time, but you will find it particularly beneficial when: In all of these situations, you will get more out of coaching or mentoring, if you: © David Clutterbuck, 2014...
One of the things successful people tend to have in common is that they have had at least one, and sometimes many, mentors in their lives – people, who cared enough about them to help them learn about themselves, make significant transitions in their personal growth or careers, and achieve their aspirations. Some people have...
The aims of the first mentoring meeting are to: Getting to know each other Many relationships struggle to get off the ground because they are insufficiently open at the start. This is particularly true of when mentor and mentee come from different cultures. They may feel concerned not to offend, or be suspicious about each...
Being a mentee isn’t about sitting back and letting the mentor do all the work. If you are going to make the most out of this powerful learning opportunity, you will have to invest considerable time and energy, both in the mentoring meetings and between them. If you can answer yes to all or most (more…)
Score yourself 1 to 5 (5 being high) on the following statements. If you will find it useful, ask people, whose opinion you trust, what they would say. I have reflected deeply on my professional experience I have reflected deeply on my experience of life I invest time in my professional development I believe that (more…)
It is good practice to spend at least 30 minutes and preferably more preparing for every mentoring meeting. It is important to think through what you want from the meeting and how you can achieve that ensures you will get the most from that meeting; this takes time. By also advising your mentor in advance (more…)
It is good practice to spend at least 30 minutes and preferably more preparing for every mentoring meeting. Thinking through how you can support your mentee and how you can achieve that ensures you will get the most from that meeting. When diaries are busy and time is precious, this preparation also gives you both (more…)
Where and when you hold a mentoring conversation can make a significant difference to the quality of the learning that takes place. Practical guidelines: © David Clutterbuck, 2015...
Within any mentoring programme, a small proportion of matches will not work out as intended. The most common causes are: Mentors and mentees need to be prepared for this to happen and to regard the first two meetings as a form of probation – a trial to see how well they can work together. By...
Research has shown that properly managing the ending of the formal phase of your mentoring relationship is vital to how both parties feel about it thereafter. Often relationships that were allowed to fizzle out without formal closure resulted in one or both parties having an overall negative recollection of the mentoring experience. By contrast, almost...